||| FROM PENNY BUTTKE |||

My friend Difa has just decided to marry her ex-husband for the third time. “This time it will be different,” she says. “I just don’t see any way to live without him.” Over 150 of her friends have begged her to reconsider but she decided they weren’t really her friends.

Has he changed? He says he has. What happens if he hasn’t? Well, her ex-lawyer now his lawyer advised him to change the mutually agreed pre-nup so that if he doesn’t live up to his part she just has to trust him. “But, I know this time it will be different because he’s a new man and anyway I just don’t have a different choice.”

“Have you sought your community’s advice and assistance?” I ask. “No. I have to decide right this minute because he might change his mind.”


 

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