— from Justin Paulsen —

Here’s something for you to consider as people start moving out and about around town.

If you see a teacher/leader with a group of kids, understand that those groups are working hard to keep themselves, each other, and our community safe. Understand that hundreds of hours of planning have gone into creating that group. If they seem like too much to you, give them a wide berth and perhaps a wider smile. They miss seeing people’s smiles.

If you note that they are not wearing masks, understand that there are reasons and guidelines surrounding that. Understand that they are working hard to help the kids to positively adjust to our new reality. If you are dutifully wearing your mask, perhaps offer them a wave to let them know that you appreciate them.

If you note that they are walking down the street holding hands and are appalled that they are not six feet apart, close your eyes and think back to when you or your kids were young. Understand that kids thrive on contact. Human touch is powerful. It’s very likely that they won’t get within six feet of you, so perhaps take a moment and observe their joy of togetherness. Or, just leave your eyes shut a little longer… they will move out of your view soon enough.

If you notice them on a playground, understand that playgrounds are also classrooms. Kids learn on a playground, they experience success, failure and compromise, and most importantly healthy activity. It is likely they won’t be distanced and it is likely they won’t be masked, but understand the the work has been done to address this — safely.

Most of all as you see all these things, whatever you do, don’t interrupt the group with your concern. Understand everything above. Understand that the dynamics of teacher/student/group take time and energy to develop. Understand that these kids have EXACTLY the same amount of experience in living in a pandemic that you do, and like you, are finding their way. They last thing they need right now is more feelings of uncertainty, isolation, and guilt — they’ve had enough of that for a lifetime. If you really feel compelled to say something, reach out directly to the organization in charge

If we all have a little understanding of each other we might just get through this. And…

Thank you to the teachers and programs that are living this experience in real-time. You guys are heros for sure.

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